The classic narcissist is confident, charismatic and entertaining. He always does the first step with great self-confidence and a look that can sweep you of your feet. Being ditched is not an option. He’ll give you all attention and love in the world to win you over, simply because he hates failures. His self-absorption and dominance will be your aphrodisiac at the beginning. But once your relationship gets deeper, the only important things will be his ego, his feelings and needs, his desires and his ambitions.
Sooner or later, he’ll take the mask of his face and you’ll be disappointed by this man’s true color. You’ll see the dark side of a narcissist. Soon you’ll realize that he’s in love, but only in himself…
How to recognize a true narcissist? Here are the signs:
1. He’s bored if he’s not center of attention
Many people know when to shut up and let other people talk. That’s not the case when it comes to narcissists. He talks about himself for hours, and he gets mad if he loses his spot light. A narcissist shows clear signs of boredom when he’s not talking. He might even leave from the best parties if he can’t find a way to be center of attention.
2. He acts like King of the world
He gets really angry when he waits for the waiter in a restaurant, even though he waited for only 2 minutes. He always expects to be put on the pedestal.
3. He’s always the best
Didn’t you know? He’s the best; he’s the smartest; he’s the most ambitious; he’s the most talented…
4. Has a constant hunger for compliments
Who says that a narcissist isn’t a good listener? Off course he is, but only when you compliment him. He’s never satisfied with small compliments. If you want to get his attention, compliment him on everything.
5. He’s always right
If you dare to question him, prepare for a war, that you’ll end up losing.
6. He’s never guilty for any of your relationship problems
You’re the one to blame for every problem in your relationship. A narcissistic man will never admit he’s wrong and will never say he’s sorry
7. Intimacy is only for his pleasure
A narcissist doesn’t care if you’re turned on; he’ll skip foreplay and he’ll only focus on his own pleasure.
8. He thinks everybody is jealous of him
A narcissist believes that each and every person is jealous of him. When someone refuses to help a narcissist on his road to success, he’ll always say: It’s because they’re jealous.
9. He surrounds himself with people who can give him something
He always use his charm to get something out of people. As soon as he feels that he can’t benefit of a person, he leaves that person without looking back.
10. He’s preoccupied with his dreams and ambitious plans
We all have dreams, but a narcissist is obsessed with them. He always fantasizes about power and wealth. If you’re in a relationship with this person, don’t expect discussions about your dreams. Narcissist’s dreams are always more important than yours.